Can true romance exist without good sex? The big question which always puzzled me is “Why did he /she cheat on him/her, they were a perfect couple. Yes, well fine, he might be a Romeo romantic at heart. Ticking all the perfect boxes, spontaneous dates, bouquet of flowers but, the other partner still went out of the relationship to get laid. So, what happens if one of the partners are not satisfied between the sheets. Can the romance make up for, boring sex. Some will say, that the reason why, over the centuries, it has been preached down, “no sex, before romance”. Books have been written about, how to keep the cookie jar closed”, but is it worth not giving, and building up all the sexual tension, going on dates, only to find out it was all for ,less than 5minutes run. Let’s not go for the duration, what about the size, I don’t care who says what, but size do matter. Imagine you have been on dates, building all that sexual tension, and the romance is on point, you can even hear wedding bells,and it’s beyond sexual healing you are in love. What if he is a “mini penis” can good romance at least make up for small size. Women love to be politically correct , talk about dishonesty to ourselves. Most women I had the size discussion with, ( maybe we have a sex group somewhere) have confess that, good sex do make up for lot of flaws. So, believe it or not an ” I’m sorry orgasm ” is better than a bunch of flowers. For guys who are disadvantage on size, the tongue can be your best friend. One thing I have observer is, we as women give lot of power to men to be in control of our bodies especially our vaginas. I strongly believe, your don’t have to stay in a shitty relationship just because of a good shagging. DIY, learn your body, get comfortable with yourself, love your nakedness. Get to know your g spot.. Teach your partner ,how to make love to you. On the same breath, all of this our possible though if you have a partner, who is open minded and willing to learn and explore. Sexuality is a never ending learning curve, because every partner who we have ever been intimate with, leave a mark on us. Wether good memories, which we always compare to or bad ones which we try to avoid at all costs. Romance in a relationship is the getaway to be able to communicate and get to know each other. Sex is the cherry on top. And if you look at sex through out history, women have always been on the receiving side. It’s a taboo for a woman to be vocally and honest on how she would like to be sexed without society judging her as as slut. Women must always preserver themselves for men. Women love to hide their sexual experiences even if she could be “Madam Rouge ” she will down play herself just to boost that male ego. We as women are so willing and giving our sexuality to a point of we don’t stand together and fight for our rights. I still don’t understand, why we have female circumcisions, because from a medical point of view research I couldn’t find any evidence saying, the female circumcision is done because of this medical reasons, so, why do it? Ladies size, speed if he makes your heart skip a bit and is willing to learn, teach him how to tame the pussy.